Stories from 大头芬的世界

stories taken from 大头芬的世界 .

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Story 1

那是一個非常寧靜而美麗的小城﹐有一對非常恩愛的戀人﹐他們每天都去海邊看日出﹐晚上去海邊送夕陽﹐每個見過他們的人都向他們投來羨慕的目光……

　　可是有一天﹐在一場車禍中﹐女孩不幸受了重傷﹐她靜靜地躺在醫院的病床上﹐幾天幾夜都沒有醒過來。白天﹐男孩就守在床前不停地呼喚毫無知覺的戀人﹔晚上﹐他就跑到小城的教堂裡向上帝禱告﹐他已經哭乾了眼淚。


　　一個月過去了﹐女孩仍然昏睡著﹐而男孩早已憔悴不堪了﹐但他仍苦苦地支撐著。終於有一天﹐上帝被這個痴情的男孩感動了。於是他決定給這個執著的男孩一個例外。上帝問他﹕“你願意用自己的生命作為交換嗎﹖”男孩毫不猶豫地回答﹕“我願意﹗”上帝說﹕“那好吧﹐我可以讓你的戀人很快醒過來﹐但你要答應化作三年的蜻蜓﹐你願意嗎﹖”男孩聽了﹐還是堅定地回答道﹕“我願意﹗”


　　天亮了﹐男孩已經變成了一隻漂亮的蜻蜓﹐他告別了上帝便匆匆地飛到了醫院。女孩真的醒了﹐而且她還在跟身旁的一位醫生交談著什麼﹐可惜他聽不到。


　　幾天後﹐女孩便康復出院了﹐但是她並不快樂。她四處打聽著男孩的下落﹐但沒有人知道男孩究竟去了哪裡。女孩整天不停地尋找著﹐然而早已化身成蜻蜓的男孩卻無時無刻不圍繞在她身邊﹐只是他不會呼喊﹐不會擁抱﹐他只能默默地承受著她的視而不見。夏天過去了﹐秋天的涼風吹落了樹葉﹐蜻蜓不得不離開這裡。於是他最後一次飛落在女孩的肩上。他想用自己的翅膀撫摸她的臉﹐用細小的嘴來親吻她的額頭﹐然而他弱小的身體還是不足以被她發現。


　　轉眼間﹐春天來了﹐蜻蜓迫不及待地飛回來尋找自己的戀人。然而﹐她那熟悉的身影旁站著一個高大而英俊的男人﹐那一剎那﹐蜻蜓幾乎快從半空中墜落下來。人們講起車禍後女孩病得多麼的嚴重﹐描述著那名男醫生有多麼的善良﹑可愛﹐還描述著他們的愛情有多麼的理所當然﹐當然也描述了女孩已經快樂如從前。


　　蜻蜓傷心極了﹐在接下來的幾天中﹐他常常會看到那個男人帶著自己的戀人在海邊看日出﹐晚上又在海邊看日落﹐而他自己除了偶爾能停落在她的肩上以外﹐什麼也做不了。
　　這一年的夏天特別長﹐蜻蜓每天痛苦地低飛著﹐他已經沒有勇氣接近自己昔日的戀人。她和那男人之間的喃喃細語﹐他和她快樂的笑聲﹐都令他窒息。


　　第三年的夏天﹐蜻蜓已不再常常去看望自己的戀人了。她的肩被男醫生輕擁著﹐臉被男醫生輕輕地吻著﹐根本沒有時間去留意一隻傷心的蜻蜓﹐更沒有心情去懷唸過去。


　　上帝約定的三年期限很快就要到了。就在最後一天﹐蜻蜓昔日的戀人跟那個男醫生舉行了婚禮。
　　蜻蜓悄悄地飛進教堂﹐落在上帝的肩膀上﹐他聽到下面的戀人對上帝發誓說﹕我願意﹗他看著那個男醫生把戒指戴到昔日戀人的手上﹐然後看著他們甜蜜地親吻著。蜻蜓流下了傷心的淚水。


　　上帝嘆息著﹕“你後悔了嗎﹖”蜻蜓擦乾了眼淚﹕“沒有﹗”上帝又帶著一絲愉悅說﹕“那麼﹐明天你就可以變回你自己了。”蜻蜓搖了搖頭﹕“就讓我做一輩子蜻蜓吧……”

有些緣份是註定要失去的。愛一個人不一定要擁有﹐但擁有一個人就一定要好好去愛他。你的肩上有蜻蜓嗎﹖

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真是个伟大的男生。各位朋友,请好好注意你生边的“蜻蜓”

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Story 2
傍晚，和大奶彬约好一起去吃晚餐，然后一起搭地铁回宿舍。在回宿舍的车上，我忍不住问大奶彬：“你真的没话跟我说吗？”

彬：“说什么？”

芬：“你和天才庆的事。”

大奶彬看了我一眼，把头转去面对另一个方向，小声说了一句：“都分手了，还有什么好说的。”

芬：“你一点也不觉得可惜吗？你们在一起那么多年，感情那么深，怎么可以为了一件事而放弃？”

大奶彬还是没说什么。我越来越心急。

芬：“我知道他还是爱你的。我也知道你还是爱他的。既然还彼此相爱，为什么不能尝试解决问题呢？”

彬：“你不会明白的。”

芬：“明白什么？”

彬：“天才庆不是一个随便说分手的人。他已经做了这个决定，无论我怎么尝试挽救也没用。”

芬：“你不试一试怎么知道没用呢？”

彬：“你不要再说了好不好！我不想再提这件事了。”

就这样，我们沉默了。

天才庆不肯和大奶彬联络，因为他认为以大奶彬的脾气来推断，现在的大奶彬一定很生气。大奶彬觉得没办法改变天才庆的决定，因为她认为以天才庆的性格来说，一旦天才庆做了决定，就不会改变了。他们的问题，就是太固执地认为自己了解对方了。

我该怎么帮他们呢？

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sometimes, u really need third party (must know the couple well) to help to clear the misunderstanding... ppl always assume, assume and assume, the other party just dun want to listen also.. in the end, the true love is gone...

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~50th day of usage~

Woo Hoo! This is the 50th day I am using the singtel prepaid card.. I have to top up today in order to roll over the balance.. I still left with SGD 13.00 for overseas call and sms, and SGD 28 for local call and sms...
After I top up today will have 50 days usage again.. then I have SGD41 for overseas call and sms, and SGD 100 for local call and sms..

SGD 28 lasts for 50 days.. with total 100 value..u dont have to struggling with the contract.. and it is CHEAP!!!
the cheapest u can get per month is SGD 21.. that is for 30 days only.. and so many limitations, like the free minutes, free sms and so on...

so, take my advice, cut down ur hp bill by using prepaid card (for singtel, HOT 100 top up)

Ano†he® M@®K

As an Engineering Assistant (can take it as technichian also), I had to deal with the pot with more than 255 °C. The solder melt in the pot... I needed to casted all the solder out with the "cheap labour" in my company.. I dont mind.. but it just always had me burnt whenever I handle the machine... While all the previous burnt mark still appear vividly, (aw.. I dun want to take the photo on them), new burnt marks are having their "parking" on my hands. (yes, hands.. both left and right hand)...

I hate this.. all the scars left on my hands.. and they dont seem to be letting me off.. reminding me of the hurt, the pain and the frustration...

UH-OH!! Let's enjoy these "artistic" photos on my hand. perhaps I can take it as tattoo.....

Ocean's Thirteen

WOooo HooooO~~~~~~~ Just came back from GV Marina. Watched Ocean's Thirteen with my friend.. YEP!!!!! It is a great show!!! It gave me nervous, laughs and excitment...

Cunning casino owner - Bank cheated Reuben's trust and forced him to sell all his stakes of the casino (Reuben owned 50% stake) to Bank.

Due to the shock and furious, he had heart attack. His gang, lead by Danny and Rusty, began a series of planning for revenge.. They want to force Bank to hand over the Casino. They are pinning on hope that Reuben would recover by getting the Casino back for him..

They went through some difficulties, made some jokes and the revenge starts......

COME ON!!! go and watch the show !!!!! U are not expecting me to tell u the whole story, are u? ^.^

Enjoy the movie!!!!!!!!!!!

心惊胆跳的早上

The results is OUT!!!!!!!!!!

Just early in the morning, Su called KW, asking him about his results... I started to feel nervous.. WHY???

B'coz during the exam period, I wasn't able to study. No mood to study due to the sad thing I was enduring on.. in addition of laziness and being playful (always find excuses to play game, like saying that I am under too much stress and so on).

Once again with the help from my two buddies, Ric & KW, I managed to understand some of the study materials. Then I went into the exam hall without sufficient practices.

I was so scared that I would have failed one or two subjects (in fact, only 3 subjects this semester!!!!) This was due to I didn't have much confidence in the exam. I didnt have enough knowledge and practice to answer the exam questions..

I skipped most of the questions and had left blanks in most of the questions... the situation was not looking good for me... I was getting more and more nervous..... These questions kept coming into my mind... "What if I failed? How am I going to handle more subjects in the coming semester? How would I tell my parents that I've failed?"

See?? I WASTED TIME to think about these questions... how am I going to face with the failure of the exam DURING EXAM HOURS!

Time was ticking w/o waiting for me... My answer sheets was still quite "CLEAN".. So, I closed my eyes, drank a big mouth of water, telling me I can pass this, I can break through, I will be able to think of the solution, these questions are easy......

Then, I started to use my same old tactic.. analyse what the question was asking.. what formula should I use... And I just "HAMTAM" the formula, tried to solve the questions... At this point, never head back to think if I used the wrong formula or wrong answer (sometimes u feel that the answer is quite weird, and kept looking back for error -----> WASTE TIME!!!)

So I could just pray hard to pass my exam.. as I really didn't have good prepartion for the exam.

Just now, I checked my results and I could feel my strong heartbeat...

Now, let me announced that I PASSED THE EXAM!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Once again, my trick works!!!!!!!! Really always use the psychological method to boost up my own confidence and helped me to breakthrough the deadlock!!!!

Even though my exam results are not that good, but I am quite satisfied to get this reslts with the insufficient preparation for the exam.

Mechanics or Materials - B
Mathematics 4 - C+
Engineering Management & Analysis - C

KW and Ric's results are around the same with me. Thanks guys, and keep it up!!!!

Finally, I feel relieved a lot... :P

东海战

AW!!!!!!!!! It is not as interesting as I think... In fact, it is quite boring.. When they start singing, I was like ," OH MY GOD!!! CAN U PLS STOP THIS??!!!" The ending is too short and after that, start singing for more than 5 minutes... WTF!!! So noisy!!!!! It supposed to be an hour movie, but I thought I had been watching for 2 hours!!!!!!!! RIDICULOUS!!!!!!!! What a tiring show!!!! I am so sorry for my ears.. disaster day!!!!

Singapore's animation still have a lot of room for improvement.. If they want to go for international, they need to have a big leap forward!!!!

Work hard on it (dont forget to work smart as well) , Singapore Animation!!!
(Well, luckily I still managed to laugh @ some of the contents of the movie :P - KW NEVER LAUGHED! If not wrong, he has (or nearly) fallen asleep...)

SHREK 3 is far more interesting !!!!!

东海战 Legend of the Sea !!!

Yeah!!! Tonight will be going to watch 东海战 Legend of the Sea movie preview, thanks to my sis who got the tickets from my paper (我报）Exclusive Movie Preview!!



东海战 is the second animation produced by Singapore (the first one was Zodiac CNY last year). The same team produces 东海战, with additional help from 林俊杰, 金莎 and 林宇中 for some characters.



Wooo Hoooo~~~~ Last Sunday went to watch Shrek 3, just after 3 days, I can attend the Legend of the Sea's movie preview. Tonight will be going with Kah Wei... Hehe....... :P



Will 林俊杰, 金莎 and 林宇中 attend? Hopefully able to take some snapshots over there and can update into my blog...



东海战 HERE I COME!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Dont believe?? Here is the PROOF!!!!!!!

Grandma's request??

Last week, my grandma, asked me when am I going to get married.. In a split second, I replied her ,"not so soon, why getting married so early..." In fact, none of them know that I am single!!! HAHA!!!! :P So, I just said that wait for another few more years.. I still got a lot of things to handle, dun want to set up a family so soon..

I couldn't believe that those words were uttered out by myself.. I've longed to set up a family.. Maybe I'm trying to deceive myself? Maybe I really think out of the box.. Who knows? LoLz.

My mum told me that grandma always doesnt want to attend my siblings' wedding. This was the FIRST TIME that she asked about it and wanted to go... Ooops!!! After knowing about this, I feel regret of telling my grandma like that.. I think this will upset her.

On the other hand, I cant help much on this.. HAHA! I am now single and available, but I dun have any fancy on any other girl.. (maybe need to include yet) :P

So, Grandma, you have to wait, wait until I get married. I dun think I will rush for it. I think I will take my time on that. Hopefully you can attend it in your life time. I love you grandma :)
Take care. ^.^

Mammogram

My sister broke the news to me that my mother experienced breast pain for the past few weeks without letting us know. My auntie informed us..... So, my sister and I started the planning for her to come over to SG to have the check up, mammogram screening and some other detail screening, if necessary..

Mammogram, a new word for me last week.. What is mammogram?? what is that??? Here, to share this general knowledge to all of you.
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Mammogram

What is a mammogram?
A mammogram is a special diagnostic x-ray procedure of the breasts and is very helpful in detecting breast cancer.

Why does a women need to undergo a mammogram?
Breast cancer is one of the most common cancers among women in Singapore constituting more than 20% of all cancers. Thus, a mammogram should be performed yearly, as an abnormality can develop any time.

When do I need to go for mammogram?
According to the American Cancer Society, any woman between 40 - 49 years old should have a mammogram done every 1 - 2 years. As for women over 50 years old, mammogram should be done on a yearly basis.

What do I need to prepare before mammogram?
No preparation or fasting is required and you can have it done any time. But do not use power or deodorant on your breasts or armpits on the day of examination, as it will affect the x-ray image. It will be more convenient to wear a blouse rather than a dress, as you will be asked to undress from waist up.

How long is the examination?
It takes about 15 to 20 minutes to perform the examination.

Do mammograms hurt?
A mammogram should not "really hurt." It may cause discomfort, but not out-and-out pain. Mammograms may be uncomfortable because it is necessary to spread the breast tissue out as evenly as possible to obtain a good image. This requires that the breast be sandwiched between two pieces of Plexiglass-like material on the machine. This probably does not feel very good, but the radiographer doing the mammogram should never compress the breasts to the point that it is painful. If it does truly hurt, then you should tell the radiographer so she can reposition the breast.

For more information about breast cancer, pls refer to:

Breast Cancer Q&A

Breast self exam reminder

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Dont believe that mammogram is not hurt.. It HURTS!!!!!! My auntie and some of my relatives underwent the test and all of them said it hurts!!!!!
Finally persuaded my mum to have the check up before making appointment for mammogram..

I've prayed for her, asking my grandparents and gods to bless her.. hopefully she is ok. Mum, take care... I love you...

我的腰没有力？？？

爸爸的脚痛逐渐减少，直说这件神庙的将军义务帮我们推（推拿）。一直以来都不知道为什么我会无缘无故的背痛，脚痛。这天，刚巧是十五。我和爸爸就去了神庙。　

将军帮我把脉（左手和右手）。他说我的腰没有力了。至少在接下来的半年里，我得注意我的饮食。我不能吃辣椒，豆类，豆制成品，鸭肉，凉的菜（白菜，kangkong, ...) ，冷饮。　否则，他不会继续帮我推。

当他在帮我推时，我可以感觉得到一股气满满的渗入我的身体。痛！真的好痛！！！！！　我强忍了约十分钟，他指示我弯下腰。开始，我不敢弯太多，因为我知道我的腰弯到某个程度会很痛。他叫我敢敢弯下去！哇！这简直是要我的命！没办法，只好照着他办。出乎意料之外，真的不会那么痛！我可以弯超过我平时的极限！！

接下来，就是推我的脚了。。。。ＯＵＣＨ！！！！！！！！　比推我的腰更痛！　左右脚腿好了，就指示我尊下来。是好了很多，但是还有很多医治的需要。

我一定要让我的身体便会正常！我要戒口！谢谢你，将军！