一日金句

赠送给那些爱说谎的人：

因为作了坏事，所以非说谎不可。
因为说了谎，就会毫不在乎去做坏事。

一旦扯了谎，往往要在用二，三十个谎话去圆谎。

（所以）说谎的人必须有很好的记忆力。

一日金句

许多人一生都在
[无法承受痛苦]的错误想法中渡过，
然而你已经承受了痛苦；
尚未做的，
只是去感受痛苦以外的其他感受。

Singapore Dreaming

This is a good movie.. I am not in a good mood to update the details..

静思语

静思语

我能有第二次机会吗。。。。。。。。

再一次看了小孩不笨2，梁志强和向云在职场上努力奋斗，孩子要什么有什么。但是，他们不知道，孩子们缺少了爱。

梁志强的小儿子在学校毕业典礼上担任男主角。眼看所有同学的父母，甚至亲戚也都踊跃出席，导致门票供不应求，他很想父母也出席。梁志强的小儿子拼命打电话联络梁志强，但都没有接通。

他偷食堂小贩的钱，被小贩告发。梁志强狠狠地打了他，问他为什么要偷钱去买Pokemon卡。他回答：“我打算存钱，我要买你一个小时- 五百元。”

这是他们才发现，为了孩子，给他们好吃好住，拥有很多东西，也不及那一份爱。父母对大儿子有很高的期望。但是，他们没有好好的沟通。动不动就判断他不对，一直错怪他。 他在部落格写道：“我发现这个家，其实只是个让我睡觉的地方。”

很多父母，过于担心孩子受到外界不良影响而拘束他们，也不好好的和他们说父母所担心的。以至孩子们体验不到爱，越来越叛逆。

其实，这不单单是在家庭里，这也应该警惕我们在感情世界里要好好的沟通。

以前的我，以为什么事都先帮她安排好，让她不需要这么烦恼去做决择。我害怕失去她，所以我开始拘束她。 结果，她体会到的不是爱，是没有自由，是喘不过气的压力。她要自己有所选择，不需要我替她解决一切难题。就这样，我们分开了。

想一想，当时的我果然是个不成熟的人。我根本不懂得怎么去经营一段感情。现在的我，经过一年的洗礼，我渐渐开通了，我很确定我会很好的经营一段感情。我会很好的和她沟通。我不是没有她就活不下去。而是，有了她这么好的女朋友，我的生活会更多姿多彩。我要好好的和她享受生活乐趣。我仍然的爱着她，但是，她也许仍然的害怕着我以前给她的压力。我能有第二次机会吗。。。。。。。。我希望我可以得到答案。。。

这一首歌，让我想到我们俩在KLIA离别的情景。。

Dedicated to Ming...

Monchai Sae-Wong, AKA Ming, is the guy who stayed under one roof with me for a year during the poly life.. Oops, slept the same bed with me (he was at uppder deck, I was at lower deck). to be precised.

Ming is a mixed with mature and immature (shd say playful..) guy. He showed me how ambitious he is, how he strike for his preferred modules, how he worked hard for the wives (Machines during our MDC FYP). He showed me his determination, his passions towards handson on the machines, his Never-Say-Die atttitudes in machine trouble-shooting. He could skip meals, stayed up until middle of the night to solve the problems. Together with him, I was amazed by his passions and went to MDC to work even on Sunday (well, we r buddy, so I'll tag along with him).

Remember one day we played yahoo mahjong with Rafe. Ming disguised himself as if he was from UK. To be surprised, Rafe bluffed himself from UK, too.. Haha. They were indeed virtual world players..

Ming's wedding falls on 9th March 2008. I still remember that few years ago her girlfriend said that she would not stay in Thailand as she would like to stay in Singapore and she is having prospective career over here. I was so surprised that she changed her mind for Ming. Asking why would she make this decision, she replied," He is definitely not coming to Singapore (as his family business is in Thailand), so someone has to sacrifice to be together, and that will be me."

I had an unbelievable express to them. I thought that nowadays most of the girls are not going to do this as they always claimed that the guy is so selfish, why must the girls do this for them.

It is difficult for one to make a decision for the other party without any grumbles/ feeling unfair. Well, love is never fair if you want to haggling over what he has done for you and what you have done to him. Love needs the give and take mentality. You cherish what he has done, and he cherishes what you have done.

Ming said that he ever asked his girlfriend what is good about him. Her answer, 1 - he is ambitious ; 2- she feels sense of security.

I wonder if she felt the sense of security while we were together.....

*PS* Congratulations to my buddy in poly life, Ming.. Wish both of you share the happy and woes together and be a father soon :)

斗牛要不要 Tank

斗牛要不要 Tank

(嘿,单挑啊!
只要2分钟,我就可以看到你落狗.
过了5分钟,就知道你准备输给我了.
哼!)
斗牛要不要
用骄傲单挑
承认你弱就快点逃

斗牛要不要
这地盘我要
你现在还来得及逃
斗牛要不要
用骄傲单挑
承认你弱就快点逃
斗牛.要不要
这地盘我要
你现在还来得及逃

我冷静从容,掌控这个宇宙
你以为在跟谁打篮球
我左右换手灌篮性的突破
我这种打法不是你能够防守
不是你能够防守
你别在我的面前现丑
轻轻划过我的球一声破网
2分球
我的对手不用感到失落
篮球这种天分你没有
想跟我决斗,你还要
我生而为王,胜利是我的王后
你别妄想能够打败我
斗牛.要不要
用骄傲单挑
承认你弱就快点逃
斗牛.要不要
这地盘我要
你现在还来得及逃
斗牛.要不要
用骄傲单挑
承认你弱就快点逃
斗牛.要不要
这地盘我要
你现在还来得及逃
斗牛.要不要
用骄傲单挑
承认你弱就快点逃
斗牛.要不要
这地盘我要
你现在还来得及逃