a sudden thought...

1am. return after having a cup of coffee with friends. Suddenly something crossed my mind, so I decide to write it out (†.†)"

Why so many girls being cheated by guys through irc/msn/icq/any friends making website/forum ??

Girls, are not stupid at all, they know what may befall on them.. However, most of the cheaters are very good in convincing the girls that how "GENTLEMEN" they are, how they "MISS" the girls, how they want to see the "ANGEL" in their life.. They can keep msg them, telling them they just come out for a cup of tea, to meet up together, wont be that long, can bring ur friends together, meet up @ public place.. and BLA BLA BLA.. I will say, dont give them a shit!

After a very long "persuading" and "re-affirming" that they are GENTLEMEN, the girls tend to give away. they may think, just a normal meet up, never eat with them, never go pub with them, and meet up @ public, he also keep telling me that he wants to meet me.. bla bla bla...

But do u know that how danger u may encounter?? (laughing @ my comments? go ahead!)

1st rule.. never drink any drinks that bought by the guy..
Reason, they may able to dupe you, even if it is a can drink.

2nd rule.. never drink the drinks after u went away to washroom/ for a short while..
Reason.. they had the chance to dupe you.

3rd rule... never go with him to any other place..
Reason.. they may lead u to a remote area or some place that they can kidnap you or harm u..

4th rule.. never go alone...
reason.. Most of ur friend will be very wary of them, just the victim always get carried away and didn't beware of the danger..

5th rule... Never meet up @ night time..
reason.. they can just say they want to send u home (they insist- due to it is TOO LATE, and dangerous for a girl to return home that late) .. if u give in.. u may end up in trouble...

6th rule.. never meet up near ur living /working place
reason.. they can easily follow ur daily routines and plan for the prey...

7th rule.. insist of going home ALONE IMMEDIATELY when u feel dizzy/ uncomfortable..
reason.. they may spray some aroma smell that makes u blur and start listening to them (or just too weak to resist them when they claim they are ur friends and want to send you home.)

Yes, they are still honest and kind gentlemen exist in this world.. I will say billions of CONGRATULATIONS for meeting another kind soul in the world.. However, the chances that you meet them are slimmer than you think. instead of giving urself away for the damn + fking cheaters/rapists, why not distancing urself away from all the possible jerks???

*PS* if u are going to PUB, after returning from the dancing floor.. ur drinks may end up being dupe as well.. so becareful of all these.. there is significant increase of jerks in this world..... Even if u are mature enough, u may become one of their prey as well.. Dont think that u are mature and wont be cheated on this.. *DUH!*

Once again, I want to say that girls are not stupid, but they tend to believe and trust those jerks after a long time spell from the jerk (spell?? not spell la, is the tactic they win over ur trust)..... coz those jerks are very good talker. (but I will say liar, cheater!).